Celebrating Little Things

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Celebrating Little Things – Part 1

Here is a blog post that highlights some of the little things that makes me so happy. We are living in a challenging time, and it is so easy to be negative, to find fault, to complain and wish things were different. But we have a choice to be happy and acknowledge the 'little things' which makes us smile, warms our heart and brings us happiness. I challenge anyone who reads my blog, to take a few minutes to think about some of those things and be thankful for the 'little things'. 

  1. On a recent trip to the Bay, in Sydney, I found large Lindt bars for 45 cents. I kid you not. They were due to expire in a few days, but that didn't matter to me. I bought 5.
  2. On a recent visit to Sarah Nettleton's, I had the pleasure of visiting her Mom, Martha, and sampling Martha's Ginger cookies, which were the best I have ever had. 
  3. Mom and I visited Sandy and Greg a couple of weeks after Thanksgiving. Since we had not been together for the actual holiday, they surprised us with a full Thanksgiving dinner. What a meal, what a time!
  4. Having blueberry pie before breakfast. Since we were so full after our delicious belated Thanksgiving meal, and had no room for dessert, we had blueberry pie, before breakfast, the next morning. Such a great way to start the day. 
  5. On this same trip, Mom and I went to Costco. Mom's wedding ring and engagement ring slipped off her finger. We were so thankful to find them, in the middle of Costco, on a Saturday afternoon ,with so many people hustling and bustling. 
  6. I have not been to a hairdresser since Covid put us into lockdown in March. Even though restrictions have been lifted, I have decided to let my hair grow. I'm surprised, and amused, at all the positive comments on my hair. 
  7. I often meet a school bus, not far from home, as I drive to work. Each time I meet the bus, the driver has a big smile and waves to me. I don't believe I know him, but he waves as if he knows me. I just love seeing his friendly face and enthusiastic wave. 
  8. This year the Tree for Boston came from a woodland very close to home. I had the pleasure of visiting the tree twice, before it was cut down and began the journey to Boston. The second time Mom and I wore our “Boston Strong” tee shirts my cousin Norma had given us several years ago. 
  9. I love the fall time change. I know many people don't enjoy the darkness setting in so early, but I just love to see the sunrises. Is there a better way to start the day, than with a gorgeous sunrise? Well, maybe a slice of blueberry pie before breakfast would make it better. 
  10. I managed to have my winter tires installed prior to our first snowfall. I was cutting it, close having them on only two days before the first snow, but still, they were on. Thank you TriMac Toyota for the fabulous service, as always. 
  11. And speaking of the first snowfall, I just love it. I wasn't prepared to wake up to several centimetres of snow this week, but to see the evergreen trees blanketed in a layer of white is so pretty. Every turn on the drive to work was picture perfect. 
  12. On my drive home I have noticed several homes with their Christmas trees up. The warm glow of Christmas lights, filling a living room, makes my heart so happy. I can't wait to start decorating this coming weekend. 
  13. Yesterday Mom and I worked outside covering our many shrubs, to protect them from deer snacking on them over the winter. I love working outside and especially love having Mom out with me. 
  14. Forever friends being there when you need a favour. Many thanks to Robert and Connie for giving Mom a drive to town on Friday. And to Cathy C. for coming to my eye appointment this week. 
  15. I get up at 5:45 Monday to Friday. I get up extra early so I can spend 30 minutes knitting. I love the peacefulness of knitting early in the morning. It just gets my day off on the right foot, when I can relax for a short time before going to work. 
  16. The scent of Mom's chocolate chip cookies, fresh from the oven. Heavenly.  
  17. Weekly phone calls to my uncle Dickie. 
  18. Scrolling through Facebook and finding the perfect quote that just resonates. “Deep breaths are like little love notes to your body”
  19. Song lyrics, or a fiddle tune, that you have listened to so many times, but suddenly leaps out and speaks to you, like you are hearing it for the first time. 
  20. And last, but certainly not least, laughing with my coworkers everyday. Yes, EVERYDAY!!! 

Now sit back, close your eyes, and think about three 'little things' that mean so much. 

Thanksgiving

Thankful for my Happy Place

Why do we celebrate Thanksgiving?  There appears to be many reasons to celebrate Thanksgiving in Canada.  Thanksgiving has been celebrated because a war has ended, because a Prince has recovered from serious illness, because a rebellion has ended, because of bountiful harvests and even special anniversaries.  Present day traditions indicate it is a time to gather with family and friends to enjoy one another’s company, to share a gigantic cornucopia of awesome food, to raise a toast to good health, and to just give thanks to everyone, and everything, who makes us who we are.  

On this Thanksgiving weekend 2020, while we are in the midst of a pandemic, I’m reflecting on what I’m truly thankful for, and there really are so many reasons to be thankful.

First and foremost, I’m thankful to have my Mom.  Having been unemployed since February, I’ve had so much time to spend with her.  To feel her love and support, during a rather difficult journey, has meant so much.  Keeping her safe from Covid is my number one priority.  We have obviously spent every day together, doing things like jigsaw puzzles, cooking, baking, gardening, house cleaning, culling out old magazines, clothes, and linens, relaxing on the deck, knitting, going for drives, and playing cards endlessly.  It has been a very special time for both of us.

Mom in Maine a few years ago.

Right up there with my Mom, are my brothers; Sandy and Greg.  Yes, Greg is like a second brother to me.  I love, and admire, these two very much.  They live a life that everyone should live.  They work hard, but they relax and enjoy the best of everything life has to offer.  They have a beautiful home, they are wonderful cooks, they love to garden and their yard is beautiful. They smart, and sensible, and they both have a great sense of humour.  They have been my sounding board when I have been frustrated, and when I have felt defeated.  They have offered advice and encouragement, and I always know they will be there for me.  

Greg and Sandy

I have so many other friends and family that I am so thankful to have in my life, but I dare not try to list them because I know I’d forget someone.  I am sure there are several who do not even realize how much they mean to me.  I’m also thankful for the wonderful neighbours in my community.  I’m truly blessed to live here.  

Strait Area Offsides hockey team. Love these peeps.
Riverdale Blues softball team. Lots of friends in this picture, taken sometime in the 80's.

I am thankful to live in the Atlantic Bubble.  For those of you from away, who may be reading this, the Atlantic Bubble is made up of New Brunswick, Prince Edward Island, Newfoundland/Labrador and my province of Nova Scotia.  Residents are free to travel between these provinces without having to quarantine for 14 days.  Anyone outside this region, coming into these provinces, must quarantine for 14 days.  Our leaders have kept us safe by keeping our borders closed.  The Atlantic Bubble has been declared the safest place to live in North America during this pandemic.  

I am also thankful to live in Canada.  I may be bias, but I think Canada is the best place to live.  I’m thankful my parents moved our family, to Dundee, many years ago.  

Parliament Hill, Ottawa, Canada

I am thankful to live in a comfortable house, with a beautiful yard, which allows me watch mother nature at her finest.  I love watching the birds and wildlife visit on a daily basis.  I love to watch the ever changing conditions of the river and lake.  With the stiff wind blowing today, there are beautiful white caps on the water.  Other times the stillness provides some of the most amazing reflections possible.  I’m thankful to be able to watch all the different trees bud, and leaf out, in the spring, display their various shades of green all summer, quietly provide a gorgeous palette of colour in the fall, before going to sleep during the winter, and remind us all that every season provides us with beauty.   

Colourful leaves.
Apple tree in spring with a cedar waxwing.

I’m thankful for the eagles that wake me almost every morning.  How lucky am I to see them on a daily basis?  I just can’t get enough of them.  The coyotes sometimes wake me at night, as they did last night, howling.  Oddly enough, I find it eerily comforting.  I know I’m safe in my house and I know they are just doing what comes naturally to them.  I’m thankful to see deer, fox, mink, otter, seals, lynx, beaver, many birds and other animals either in my yard or very close to my home.  

Eagle
Fox
Deer
Lynx
Seal
Mink
Pileated Woodpecker
Damsel Fly

I’m thankful for my creative abilities that allow me to…well…create.  Pen and paper, and computer and keyboard, allow me to write, and although not all is worth sharing, writing is just something that brings me happiness.  My paint brushes allow me to paint, and try to put into pictures what my heart feels.  Unfortunately others don’t always see what I see, so that is a work in progress.  I’m trying to decide if I’m an abstract or folk artist.  My knitting needles allow me to create wearable items, that I can gift to special people, or wear myself.  I spend many hours a week knitting and this is a true passion of mine.  

Abstract or Folk? A road, a stream or a fallen down tree? You decide.
I love the shape of this rock and I love lighthouses.  I felt they complimented one another.
I love the shape of this rock and I love lighthouses. I felt they complimented each other.
Hats knit during our isolation this spring. They are for the NICU at the IWK.

I’m thankful for my musical abilities, such as they are.  I love dabbling with various instruments that I have, and working out a particular tune that I like.  Like my painting, I’m not gifted, but playing music gives me great satisfaction when things work out, frustration when they don’t, but a feeling of pleasure regardless.  

I’m thankful for the little things in life; a hug, a thank you card in the mail, an unexpected phone call from an old friend, finding a dime, chocolate, socks (oh how I LOVE socks), books, a compliment on my hair (letting it grow Covid style), a friendly wave, a beep of the horn as someone drives by, flying a kite, a full moon, a shooting star, Mom’s chocolate chip cookies (they are famous), farm fresh local eggs, song lyrics that just resonate, a special memory that comes out of the blue, lighthouses, wind chimes, sunrises, sunsets, rainbows, flowers, lakes, rivers, mountains, valleys, my bicycle, my kayak, waterfalls, a good joke, hearing people belly laugh….I think you get the idea.  

Sunset
Finding dimes is so special.
Socks
Farm fresh eggs from....
...The Lilac Farm.
Cow at The Lilac Farm. Too cute.
Edgartown Lighthouse
Full Moon
Kayaking in my purple Ookpik.
Linden, my bike
Flying my kite
Flowering Kale
Honeysuckle
Sweet Peas
Sunflower Field
Mom's famous chocolate chip cookies.

This year I’m especially thankful for my health and happiness.  They go hand in hand, in many ways.  If we don’t have our health, we really have nothing.  If we don’t have happiness, we really have nothing.  If you aren’t happy, it can have detrimental effects on your health and vice versa.  I am so very thankful to have both.  

Yours truly, happy and relaxing, while kayaking and listening to music, and sporting the Covid hairdo.

If you have read this post, sit back, close your eyes, and take a few minutes to reflect on what you are thankful for.  I’ll bet you will be surprised how long your list will be.  

All photos were taken by me.

Tires 101

I worked in the tire industry for 10+ years.  Am I an expert?  No, not at all.   It is hard to keep up with the ever changing tire industry.  I do feel I have plenty of experience to write about tires and perhaps provide readers of my blog a bit more information on tires.  Believe me, they are more than ‘black and round’.  

What products go into the manufacturing of tires?

Natural rubber - comes from the inner bark of the rubber tree. Synthetic rubber - most common are by-products of crude oil.  Some companies are now using plant based oils like sunflower, orange and canola to reduce their carbon footprint.  Carbon Black - produced by controlling the burning of crude oil feed stock.  When mixed with rubber it increases the hardness and improves resistance to abrasion.  Silica - the major constituent in sand.  Other products being used are dandelions, wood pulp, walnut shells and cornstarch.  I kid you not.  Tire cored materials include; steel, rayon, nylon, polyester and fibreglass.  

Fun factThe sidewall of a standard radial passenger tire flexes 30,000,000 in its lifespan. 

Explanation of the tire size:

P195/65R15

P - Passenger car tire

195 - Section width in millimetres

65 - Aspect Ratio (65% of the width) - distance between rim and tread/face of tire

R - Radial construction

15 - Rim diameter in inches

You may also notice numbers and a letter after the size, for instance; 95S. 

95 - Load Index - an assigned number that corresponds to the load-carrying capacity of a tire. (95 = 1521 lbs or 690 kgs)

S - Speed Rating - indicates the speed category (range of speeds) at which the tire can carry a load under specified conditions.  (S = 180 kms)

Size: 205/55R16 Load Index: 91 Speed Rating: H

If there is an LT in front of the first three digits of the tire it indicates Light Truck which is a 6 ply or higher tire.  P tires are 4ply.  Remember,  you can always go up from a P tire to an LT tire, but if you vehicle calls for an LT you cannot use a P tire.  

There is lots of information on your tire sidewall besides the size of your tire.  The following information can be found on the sidewall:

DOT #: Twelve digit number which contains information such as: manufacturer and plant code, tire size, brand and other characteristics of the tire.  The most important numbers in the DOT are the last 4 digits.  They indicate the week and year the tire was made.  If your tire says 3315 it means it was made in the 33rd week of 2015.  Never buy a tire made over 7 years ago.  It is actually not legal to be sold a tire that old.   (DOT also means it has met safety standards and is approved for highway use.)

DOT# Last 4 digits (1719) indicate the tire was made the 17th week of 2019.

UTQG Labelling (Uniform Tire Quality Grade): provides buyers with information on three categories - treadwear, traction and temperature.

Treadwear - This is used to compare one tire to the next.  A tire with a treadwear of 400 should wear twice as long as a tire with a treadwear of 200.  The treadwear ranges from 60, although I’ve never seen one that low, to 800, in 20 point increments.  

Traction: A locked tire’s braking ability in a straight line on a wet road surface. Grades range from AA, A, B, C, with AA being the best.  

Temperature: Represents a properly maintained tire’s ability to dissipate heat under controlled indoor test conditions.  Range from A to C, with A being the best.  

Please be advised that all these ratings are under ideal conditions.  For instance treadwear is influenced by road conditions, driving habits, wheel alignment, weather, proper inflation, tire rotation and type of vehicle.

Other information on the sidewall is maximum load and maximum inflation, snowflake which indicates the tire is designed for severe snow conditions, and the brand and type of tire (ex. Michelin Defender).  

Maximum Load & Maximum Pressure
Tire make & model: Michelin Defender
More info: Michelin Tubeless Radial
Where the tire was made.

Alternate Tire Sizing:  Sometimes tire sizes are changed because one size is more accessible, perhaps cheaper, or maybe available in a wider choice of brands, or perhaps your 15” rims and winter tires from your previous vehicle fit your new vehicle.  If the change in overall diameter is greater than 3%, it is not permissible, as it can change the handling of the vehicle, the speedometer, traction gearing or stability control.  

Example:

P205/55R16  Overall diameter is 24.87 

P195/65R15  Overall diameter is 24.98

% Change: ((24.98-24.87)/24.87) x 100 =  .44% which is well below the 3% allowed.  

(I use the above size tires.  The 16” rims I use during spring, summer and fall and 15” rims during winter.)

Equation to figure out overall diameter of your tire using 205/55R16 size:

= ((205*55)/1270) + 16

= (11275/1270 )+16

= 8.87 +16

= 24.87

*1270 is a constant when determining overall diameter. 

Tire Mixing:

All tires should be of the same size, tire type (all season, winter or all terrain), speed rating, load capacity and construction (radial or non-radial).  

All tires should be the same size on all 4 wheels.  The only time they may not be is if your car was designed with different sizes on the front than the back.  

If possible replace all four tires at the same time.  Mixing worn tires with new tires will cause the new tires to wear prematurely.  However if only two tires are being installed the new tires MUST go on the rear axle.  Deeper tread on the rear will help avoid oversteer and a loss of stability on wet surfaces.  

Although replacing only one tire is never recommended, if this is necessary, then the new tire should be matched to the deepest tread tire of the remaining three and placed on the rear axle.  

Where should you buy your tires? 

There are so many options available now; some good, some not so good.  I’ll try to explain my thoughts.  There are online options like The Tire Man, Kijiji, amongst others.  From what I’ve heard, The Tire Man has great prices, and selection of quality tires, and is certainly a good place to begin pricing.  I’d steer clear of Kijiji just from what I’ve seen.  If the deal is too good to be true, it likely has a fault.  If you view the tires ahead of time to see what they look like, they may appear fine, but I’ve seen holes in sidewalls from tires purchased on Kijiji, which are not repairable, so you will be out of money and tires if this happens.  Also, beads can be damaged and may not appear so until they are installed on the rim and inflated.  My advice is to be very careful buying off Kijiji or any other similar online buy/sell outlet.  

Always check with your car dealership when it comes to pricing tires.  They have access to all brands and they have huge buying power, as prices are negotiated for all dealerships across Canada.  So Ford Canada, or Toyota Canada negotiate for all their dealerships. Don’t assume dealerships are going to be more expensive.  Many times they are cheaper than tire dealers and often price match.  I’d suggest to absolutely price check with your dealership.  

Tire dealers are, of  course, a good place to shop for tires because they should be the experts on all things tires.  If the dealer is a chain, their buying power will be better than a stand alone tire shop, so prices should be better as well.  

Costco often has very good pricing and can access many brands.  However, usually when you go to Costco you also end up spending way more money than you expected, because you end up in the store while your tires are being installed and you just can’t help yourself.  If you live close to a Costco, I’d definitely suggest checking their prices.  And even if you don’t, it might be worthwhile making the trip, if you can arrange it around other errands as well.  But if you are making a 3 hour drive to just have tires installed, you likely won’t save yourself much, if any, money.  Factor in the fuel, meals, spontaneous buying and you’ll have spent more than buying locally.

If you buy your tires elsewhere, and take them to your local installer, be advised they will likely charge you higher than usual install prices because you didn’t purchase from them.  You may want to call around, to various installers, to find out where the best price is for install.  

Perks such as free install or free rotations with the purchase of tires amounts to about $5/tire, so be aware you aren’t saving a whole lot of money. 

Where should you go to have your tires installed?  

Preferably you should have them installed where you buy them.  I have heard of places not providing the warranty on your tires if you don’t have them installed where they are purchased, so make sure you ask about that.  

Tire dealers, car dealerships and automotive service centres are all great places to have tires installed.  Your best friend in your back yard, maybe, maybe not.  Remember the only thing between you and the road is your tires.  You want your tires to be as safe as possible.  It’s not rocket science but there is a knack to it and it should be done by reputable installers.  If something happens, due to improper installation, you want to be able to have a recourse of action which your buddy isn’t going to be able to provide.  The same holds for the guy with a tire changer in his yard.  Does he have insurance and is he properly trained to install tires?  Just a thought.  

Always get a receipt when you have anything done involving your tires; rotation, install, flat repair, etc.  You want a paper trail, so you have something to fall back on if anything should happen.  Yes, the offer of “$60 cash, no tax, no receipt” might sound good to you, but seriously get a receipt.  I kid you not.  

Wheel Alignment and Rotation

Both wheel alignments and rotations are important for the life of you tires.  Wheel alignments should be done if you have hit a pothole, or curb, or anything that might affect the alignment.  When having your tires changed, ask if they are wearing evenly, as that is a guide if you car is out of alignment.  Also, installing of some parts affects alignment, so be sure to ask if the parts you are installing might affect that.  Rotations should be done every 5,000 kms.  This will keep the tires wearing evenly.  Both alignments and rotations must be done and you should keep record of them for warranty purposes.  

Fun Fact: If your tire salesman is talking about the ‘thread’ of the tire, you may want to go elsewhere or perhaps suggest they seek a job at a fabric shop.  

Retorque

Anytime you have your wheels removed for tire installation, brake work, or having any parts installed on your vehicle, always remember to have the wheels retorqued after 80-100 kms.  This is of utmost importance if you have alloy rims, but even if you have steel you should have them retorqued.  I had steel rims, on a Corolla, that backed off a couple of times, so I can’t stress enough how important this is.  Many people think this is not important, but considering it takes about 2 minutes to have this done, and there is no charge at most places, then for the very small inconvenience of stopping to have it checked makes all the sense in the world.  I’ve seen many instances of nuts backing off and wheels being loose.  Apparently it is a very sick feeling to lose a wheel, manage to get your car to the side of the road and then watch as your wheel goes past you.  Not only is it a danger to you and your vehicle, but what about other vehicles traveling on the roadways, and a loose wheel is rolling down the road.  It’s not worth the risk.  RETORQUE!

Plug or Patch

The safest way to repair a hole in a tire, if it is repairable, is to patch it.  Putting a plug in a tire was the old way of doing repairs, and it was the quickest way as well, but it is not safe.  The reason you want to patch a tire is because when the tire is removed from the rim, the installers can inspect the tire to see if what caused the hole is 1) still in the tire or 2) has caused further damage to the tire on the inside.  If you plug the tire, you have no idea if the cause of the hole has penetrated, and is inside the tire, which could cause a blowout later on.  I was travelling in Massachusetts one time and had a very low tire.  I stopped at the first garage I came to, to have it assessed.  They were very nice, BUT they just pulled out a nail and plugged the tire.  I asked them to remove the tire and see that nothing was inside, but they told me they didn’t do that as they just use plugs.  They were not concerned that a piece of the nail could still be inside.  It was a very uneasy drive back to Cape Breton, where I had the plug removed and a patch put on.  Luckily there was nothing in the tire, but I had no idea until the tire was removed. 

Nitrogen: 

Several years ago this was going to be the next big idea being introduced to make your tire last longer.  Nitrogen was going to keep your tire cooler.  It was going to keep it inflated more consistently, so there was no decrease or increase in tire pressure with changing temperatures.  Salespeople were visiting all places that installed tires, trying to get them to purchase machines costing thousands of dollars that would be used to inflate tires with nitrogen.  The past few years there has been very little push to have nitrogen available.  I don’t feel there was ever any concrete evidence that nitrogen increased the longevity in tires, or provided better fuel efficiency, as initially thought.  Air is 78-80% nitrogen, however for a tire be considered nitrogen filled it has to be 93% nitrogen.  Be aware that there is an extra charge for getting nitrogen.  Also, although some places say they are putting nitrogen in your tires, they are sometimes just changing the black caps on the stem, to green, and doing nothing else to your tire, but charging you $5/tire.  I kid you not.  

Road Hazard

Road hazard makes sense and most places that sell tires automatically sell road hazard.  However, do not purchase road hazard if you do not live near the location you are purchasing your tire(s) from.  If you live in Cape Breton and purchase your tires in Moncton, it probably doesn’t make much sense to purchase road hazard.  Road hazard is specific to the place you purchase your tires.  You can’t use your road hazard at any other location.  Road hazard covers your damaged tire for such things as potholes, curbs, and things penetrating the tire such as knives, (I kid you not), nails, screws, etc. If the tire can be repaired, it must be repaired, but if it is deemed unrepairable, then a new tire is purchased at a prorated price, depending on how much is worn on the tire being replaced.  I have seen quite a range in prices for road hazard from $5-20/tire.  It is more commonly somewhere between $8-15.  

Be aware that most places will not sell road hazard if you live away, but some will still try to, so be wary.

All Season/Winter Tires

Tires that are labeled “All Season” or “All Weather” are not designed for severe winter conditions like we see here in the Maritimes.  They are for moderate winter climates that see little to no snow and moderate temperatures rarely falling below 7C.  Do I use winter tires?  Absolutely and I will probably never drive in the winter again without them.  However, I had a newspaper route for many years, and never used winter tires.  Was that smart?  No.  

Tires deemed all season are harder than snow rated tires.  Once the temperature drops below 7C, all season tires will not respond to conditions as well as a winter tire.  Winter tires are softer and respond better in colder temperatures, that is why it is best to remove winter tires before the temperatures get too warm in the spring.  If not, they will wear faster.  I highly recommend winter tires. There are some tires out now that are ‘all weather’ tires that have the snowflake on the sidewall (indicating they are a snow rated tire) but I really don’t feel confident that there is a tire made that works best in the extreme weather we can experience through all seasons.  

Winter tires must be installed on all four wheels.  If you have a rear wheel drive vehicle you can install only two winter tires, but they must be installed on the rear of the vehicle.  

Studs

I have been asked repeatedly if I recommend studs.  No, I do not recommend studs.  Studs were designed when the majority of the roads were dirt, which would build up with ice during the winter.  Although there are still a few dirt roads, the majority of driving takes place on paved roads where there is not as much of a chance of ice buildup.  With that being said, we did have a couple of instances a few years ago, in which there were flash freezes and we did have ice covered roads, but as a rule that doesn’t often happen.  

Here is my take on studs; basically you are driving on ball bearings.  If the paved roads are damp from rain or melting snow and you suddenly have to jam on your brakes, what happens?  You go skidding down the road.  Also, studs do not help in heavy snow.  Studs are basically only good for the first year and then you just have a decent snow tire.  However, if you have a driveway with a steep hill, that gets ice covered, or if you live on a dirt road and must travel daily, then yes, you may want to consider studs.  As well, if you have always driven with studs, and it brings you peace of mind, by all means continue to drive on studs.  But if you’ve never had them and are considering studs, I’d not recommend purchasing.  

Studs can only be put in brand new tires.  Tires that have been driven on cannot be studded.  (Well theoretically they can be studded, but they should not be studded).  Used tires can have dirt in the stud holes, and when the stud is inserted the dirt can be blown deeper into the tire or even through the tire.  

Winter Tire Install:

Since we are on the topic of winter tires, this is a reminder.  Do not wait until the first snowfall to have your tires installed.  If you are reading this, and living anywhere in Atlantic Canada, be aware that no matter what you hope for, we will have winter.  We will have snow.  It will come at some point.  Once the temperature is consistently below 7C, get your winter tires installed.  I recommend around Remembrance Day (November 11) as a good estimate to make an appointment to have them installed.  Do yourself, and the tire installation business’s, a favour and have it done early.  If you wait for the first snowfall, you will likely have to wait at least a week, or more, before you can have them installed.  

Tires on New Vehicle Purchase:

Tires that are on new vehicles are not designed for longevity.  If you get 12,000-15,000kms on these tires, consider that very good.  Tires on new vehicles are soft and designed to make the test drive a nice, quiet, comfortable ride.  The last Corolla I bought had Goodyear tires on it.  When I test drove the car I really didn’t like how the tires handled or sounded. I purchased the car but upgraded to Michelin tires.  Sometimes you can work out arrangements with the vehicle dealerships regarding upgrading to a tire you are comfortable with, if you don’t like the tires that come on the car.

Also, be aware of the size of the tires on the new vehicle you might purchase.  They may look nice and the alloy rims might be ‘pretty’, but when you have to replace those nice looking tires, or rims, they may be costly.  Some SUV’s are now coming with 22” tires/rims on them, which are very very expensive.  Just a reminder to take into consideration the size of the rims and tires and replacement costs.  

Miscellaneous 

Husbands and Dad’s, please please please when pricing tires for your wife and kids, do not say ‘it’s just for the wife’s car, or for the kid’s car, so give me the cheapest tires you have’.  Oh my gosh, this is something I’ve heard hundreds of times.  Seriously!  Your wife should be the love of your life, and your kids are your pride and joy, and you want the cheapest tires for them.  I would cringe every time I heard this and yet these same people would want the most expensive tires for their own vehicle.  

If you are getting a deal on brand name tires at a price too good to be true, chances are it is.  When tires companies decide to stop making a particular tire, they will liquidate them.  If a business buys in large amounts, they can purchase at a very good price.  Sometimes the business will have a sale on these tires and other times they chose to sell them at the normal price.  However, if the price is VERY good, ask why.  Chances are if you purchase and then something happens to your tire in the following few months, you may not be able to purchase the same model, so be aware of this prior to purchasing the tires.  If you can’t buy a matching tire you are then forced to either buy two tires or have an unmatched tire on your car (not recommended).  Just inquire as to why the tires are so cheap.  You may or may not get an honest answer though.  However, sometimes the new tires replacing that model are a very close substitute.  Other times there is no replacement.  

Be aware of brand name tires being sold as ‘off brands’.  Bridgestone has, or had, a Fuzion tire which was pegged as an ‘off brand’ of Bridgestone.  It is an off brand for a reason.  It doesn’t meet the quality of Bridgestone.  They will be economically priced and have no mileage warranty, which might be all you want and that is fine.  There is nothing wrong with these tires, but they just don’t meet the quality of the parent company.  

What brand/model tires do I use?

For the last 15+ years I have driven predominantly on Michelin tires for my all seasons.  The best Michelin tires I ever had were Michelin Hyrdoedge, which sadly are no longer made.  They were so good in rain.  However, I now drive on Michelin Defender and I find they handle just as good in the rain as the Hydroedge.  (I did try Bridgestone Serenity Plus but I didn’t find they handled, or lasted as long as any Michelin tire I had used prior.) Most models of Michelin have a very good mileage warranty, although with our road conditions, and varying weather conditions, one never gets the expected mileage.  Always keep a log of your tires install and removal (for winter tires) so you can have a record of your mileage, for warranty reasons, when purchasing your next set of tires.  There is a prorated gauge used when you don’t get the expected mileage. Most winter tires do not come with a mileage warranty. Michelin X-Ice is one of the few that does have a mileage warranty.

For many years I drove on Bridgestone Blizzaks, in the winter, and loved them.  They got me anywhere I wanted to go and back.  They were/are expensive but worth it.  A few years ago I went to Ottawa to test drive the new BF Goodrich KSI tires.  They had not yet been released, so I was one of the many testers who had the opportunity to try these tires before they were available.  It was a wonderful experience.  BF Goodrich had three courses set up at an airport, so there was lots of room to experience different snow/ice conditions.  One course was somewhat circular in design, with several snow conditions from minimal snow, to heavy snow, to twists and turns, to ice conditions.  A second course was a slalom; weaving in and out through poles on varying ice and snow conditions.  And the third was a straight course, of strictly ice, in which you had to approach the course going 120km/hr and at a certain point you were instructed to apply the brakes.  I was the last person to do this one before it was shut down due to extreme cold conditions (-24C).  From my years of driving on Bridgestone Blizzaks, I have to say that the BF Goodrich KSI are equivalent and I now drive on these tires.  I have had them for a couple of winters now and I love them.  

I have attended several Michelin/BF Goodrich/Uniroyal and Bridgestone/Firestone seminars.  They are very well done and a wonderful experience.  I’m always intimidated, prior to attending, because the tire industry is still a man’s world, BUT more and more women are being hired and becoming a force in the tire industry.  The seminars are still predominately attended by men, but it was nice to see more women in attendance at the last seminar, than the first few seminars I attended.  I have to say the men at these seminars are very supportive of the women and there appears to be no barriers.  This was proven on one such occasion for me.  It was a Bridgestone Drive and Learn held in Moncton, NB.  The designed course had multiple turns and challenges.  I was test driving 4 Bridgestone performance tires. This was my first Drive and Learn and to say it was intimidating is an understatement.  When it came time for me to drive, I was very uncomfortable.  The first trip around the track is ‘somewhat’ a feeling out process, but the second time was all out driving.  The instructor is in the passenger seat yelling ‘go faster, go faster, turn here, faster, come on FASTER’.  So I’m driving well beyond my comfort level and we are approaching an S turn.  I feel the rear end of the car starting to slide on me and I’m trying my darnedest to recover and what do you know…I did recover.  When I got out of the car after I finished my lap, several guys came over to me and patted me on the back and said ‘holy s—- you can drive.  Well done’.  Not only was I impressed with my driving, I was very impressed with the guys.  BTW, as we are driving, we are recorded from inside the vehicle.  I have never watched the recording because I know I said some expletives.  

Conclusion:

The information I have shared has come from learning seminars, learning on the job and experiences I have encountered.  You may or may not agree with my findings and that’s fine.  If you have further questions regarding tires and you think I may be able to help you, reach out and I’ll see what I can do.  I no longer work in the tire industry but I still have lots of ability and knowledge that I can share.  I hope you find some of this information valuable and thanks for reading.  

Illness, Death and Grieving During Covid-19

Norma Billard (picture curtesy of Norma's daughter, Molly MacMillan White)

This may not be quite as light and positive as I had hoped to keep my blog posts, but it is something I've been pondering for the past months. This is not based on anything I've read or anything I've heard from anyone through conversation. This is strictly my observations and personal feelings. However, I do feel that many other people in similar circumstances may feel the same way. Covid-19 has definitely thrown a wrench into so many plans, in so many ways, none more so than when a family member is terminally ill and subsequently passes away. My experience was with my first cousin, Norma. The only two people in my life, longer than Norma, are my brother and my mother. I likely met her when I was only 3-4 days old, but I don't recall our first meeting. Through the years, Norma lived in Massachusetts, Illinois and Maine, and always summered in Dundee at her parents summer place, which became her beautiful summer home after their passing. Norma battled illness the past few years, and although treatment curtailed the illness, the side affects were difficult, leaving her with a compromised lung condition. It had become increasingly worse in her last few months. In early March, she called and asked if I would come visit her. At that time she was in a long term care facility in Boston. I debated for a couple of days, but given the time of year, with unpredictable weather, and the fact Covid appeared to be moving in on us, I didn't think it was a great idea to be travelling. Travel would also be complicated, with trying to cross over an international border, as it was speculated the border would be closing. And we all know that happened, and continues to remain closed, as I write this. Norma called me daily, sometimes as many as three or four times a day. I loved being home, so I could talk to her whenever she would call. Sometimes it was a very brief conversation, depending on her breathing, and sometimes it was longer. Often times she called when she got up in the morning, to let me know she was up and on the go and doing okay. She often called just to say goodnight. We ended every conversation by saying 'I love you' to one another. One evening, immediately after hanging up with her, the phone rang. It was Norma calling back. I picked up and said 'hello'. And she said 'but I love you more' and she promptly hung up. I love that memory. Norma's phone calls became less and less. She would call just once or twice a day, then once every couple of days, until it was just twice the last week before she went into hospice care. I missed her calling so often. The fewer calls now tell me she was losing her battle, but at the time I suppose I was in denial. Norma passed away a week after entering hospice care. That was hard. We were in shutdown with Covid at that time. There was no way to cross the border to be with her husband, son and daughter. There was no way to be with family and friends here in Cape Breton, to support one another. Support was confined to phone calls and emails. It was just not the same as giving and receiving a hug, or just being in the presence of others to share stories, to laugh at memories, or to cry on one another's shoulders. Her presence is all around, yet she is not present. I visited her summer home for the first time, a few weeks ago. She was everywhere, but nowhere. Everything was her. The large dining room table, that she loved to have surrounded by friends and family, serving them luscious food, especially at Thanksgiving, was her. The decor was all her. The upholstery, chosen for the couches and chairs, had her name all over them. Then, I saw a Volvo drive by the other day. It was the same soft brown colour she owned at one time, and I instantly thought 'oh there's Norma'. At a restaurant in Halifax last week, I noticed a picture of a fox hunt hanging on the wall. Again, I found myself being reminded of her. My mind wonders if there had been a service, would I respond and feel differently? Maybe. Maybe not. These feelings would still occur, I expect. In some ways they make me happy and I feel she just hasn't arrived to her summer home yet. Perhaps I should embrace these occurrences, but at times they catch me off guard and leave me feeling sad. Covid does not allow for a service of remembrance, or celebration of life, to be held either here, or in the US. I feel like the grieving process is on hold ,or suspended, until restrictions are lifted enough to have a ceremony. Although some families have chosen to have small family only funerals, online ceremonies, or just graveside services, which may work for them, it really isn't an option for Norma's family. She had so many friends and family, in both the US and Canada, and until the border opens, and gatherings can be held in Maine and Cape Breton to give her a proper send off, the grieving will continue or perhaps will continue to be on hold. But believe me, when there can be a celebration, it is going to be that much more meaningful, because of the delay. Yes, Covid has caused so many issues. Family and friends have been unable to be with loved ones during their most vulnerable times. We have been unable to provide support with our presence, but support only from afar. And we have unable to attend a proper ceremony, to bid adieu to our kin. It truly is a strange world we live in today. Also, by no means am I'm implying a service needs to be held, just to be held to find closure. I truly feel a service should be held only when the pandemic will make it safe for all to attend, either in the US, in Canada, or both. And the service will be what the family wants to have, to celebrate and honour Norma's life.

Dear Covid-19 Part 2

Dear Covid Remember me?  I wrote you a couple of months ago, just to let you know that you weren’t intimidating me, and also to make you aware of all the good you have done since you made your appearance.  I thought I’d write you again and let you know how things are going in my part of the world.  By the way, I called you Covid, because I feel we are on a first name basis now.   Here in Nova Scotia we have heeded the advice of Premier Stephen McNeil and Dr. Robert Strang.  They have guided us and made the important decisions with shutting down our beautiful province and gradually re-opening it.  They have done an admiral job and we are very thankful to have them leading the way.   It is now mandatory for us to wear masks when in public places.  Yes, we hate them but hey, if it keeps us safe, then we’ll put up with the inconvenience until we get use to them.  It’s rather entertaining to see all the different masks that are being used.  Many people have chosen to use the disposal ones, but others are wearing colourful cloth masks.  There are so many people making and selling their products and many are donating the money from their sales to very good causes.  Ah ha…another good thing to come from your existence.  People are making statements with their masks by wearing ones that support their favourite sports teams, or their interests, or just wearing colourful fabric masks.   I’ve seen Montreal Canadians, Toronto Maple Leafs (these have likely disappeared now), Boston Bruins, Harley Davidson, knitting, paisley print, polka dots and many more designs.  Another common mask is those made from tartan material.  I love seeing the Cape Breton tartan, Nova Scotia tartan and the Maple Leaf tartan being worn and showing allegiance to our Scottish ancestry.  Personally I love to colour co-ordinate my mask to whatever I am wearing.  You see, wearing a mask can also be a fashion statement and it can be fun.  I just had the most enjoyable weekend.  I travelled to my brother’s place in Bedford.  We have not been able to visit since you reared your ugly head.  By the way, you can stop laughing now because it really isn’t funny.  Mom and I spent two amazing days with him and Greg. A gorgeous cardinal welcomed us, only minutes after arriving. We both love cardinals and that was the first sign of what our weekend would be like.  We laughed, talked, read, watched the squirrels in the oak trees and dodged the acorns they threw down on the deck.   We sat on the deck in the sun and out of the sun.  We cooked and we ate.  But most of all we just enjoyed being in one another’s company.  At one point I lifted my head from my iPad and looked at Mom, who was reading, then I looked at Sandy and Greg who were surfing on their phones and I thought, “what more could I want?”.  The answer is nothing.  I was with the most important people in my life.  Covid, you have made me, and many others, realize just what is important in life and what isn’t.  As I made the three hour drive to Bedford and back, I saw many vehicles from Prince Edward Island, New Brunswick and Newfoundland/Labrador.  This is the Atlantic bubble and people within these provinces can travel back and forth and not have to quarantine for 14 days upon arrival.  The tourism sector is definitely missing the tourists from other parts of Canada, the US and around the world, but it is all about keeping us safe from YOU.  The traffic was heavy, maybe heavier than I’ve seen before.  It is comforting to know that many people are staying home and having what we know as staycations.  People are discovering they don’t have to travel to points far and wide to have a wonderful vacation.  They are realizing there is so much to do and see in our own province ,and in Atlantic Canada.  There were so many vehicles with kayaks and bikes being transported.  There were also MANY travel trailers of all types going and coming.  How amazing to see so many traveling and enjoying the trails, camp grounds, waterways and highways of Nova Scotia. Oh Covid, you continue to be such a positive wake up call to so many.  Thank you for that.   Those in the know believe you will be paying us a second visit, but it is unknown as to exactly when that will be.  Just to advise you, the welcome mat will not be out for you ever.  In fact, why don’t you listen to Premier McNeil and ‘stay to blazes home’.  In other words, stay to blazes away and just don’t bother coming back.  But if you do, we are already on board with shutting down again.  We did a great job the first time around, so I expect the second time we will be even better.  My advice, just don’t waste your time messing with us again.   Covid, you have caused chaos; there is no doubt about that.  You have made it very difficult for those who have, and had, terminally ill family members.  And not necessarily terminally ill from having you invade their bodies.  You have prevented family from being with their loved ones during their most vulnerable time.  That is pitiful.  You have caused ceremonies for deceased to be put on hold, therefore bringing no closure to the families of those who have passed.  I just want to advise you that when those celebrations of life are finally held, they will be even more meaningful and important to all.   I hope this letter finds you reconsidering your existence.  As you can see, we are coping quite well.  You, on the other hand, have been kicked to the curb, for the time being and hopefully for good.  We are a very welcoming and open society, but only when we can trust, and with you, there is no trust.  This is very unlike us to be so uncaring, but you ruffled our feathers big time.   Yours in continued isolation but gradually re-entering our world,  Hughena MacDougall Dundee, NS PS…I haven’t gone for a haircut yet, because of you, but guess what?  I’m liking the new do and so are many others.  
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